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Idealists have high standards, some would say it’s perfection. Idealists can see it, long for it, and expect it. Cynics might see it, but they never expect it. Idealists get disappointed a lot.1- the cherishing or pursuit of one’s ideals
2- a perception of people or things as they should be, rather than as they are.
Paul Rebukes Peter at Antioch -But when Cephas came to Antioch, I opposed him to his face, because he stood self-condemned; for until certain people came from James, he used to eat with the Gentiles. But after they came, he drew back and kept himself separate for fear of the circumcision faction. And the other Jews joined him in this hypocrisy, so that even Barnabas was led astray by their hypocrisy. But when I saw that they were not acting consistently with the truth of the gospel, I said to Cephas before them all, ‘If you, though a Jew, live like a Gentile and not like a Jew, how can you compel the Gentiles to live like Jews?’Acts 15:36-41
Paul and Barnabas Separate -After some days Paul said to Barnabas, ‘Come, let us return and visit the believers in every city where we proclaimed the word of the Lord and see how they are doing.’ Barnabas wanted to take with them John called Mark. But Paul decided not to take with them one who had deserted them in Pamphylia and had not accompanied them in the work. The disagreement became so sharp that they parted company; Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to Cyprus. But Paul chose Silas and set out, the believers commending him to the grace of the Lord. He went through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches.In Galatians, Cephus and Peter were the two most prominent leaders in the Early Church. Saint Peter and Saint Paul. Keep that in mind.
- “Where do you want to go for dinner?”Darryl Royale was the football coach for University of Tennessee. He said - “When you throw a forward pass, three things can happen, and two of them are bad.”
- “What movie do you want to see?”
- “Are you for or against the war in Iraq?”
- “Are you for or against the school auditorium?”
- “Steelers or Seahawks?”
0 = Apathy (absence of conflict, dying organization)At the higher levels of conflict there is distortion, exaggeration, abusive behavior, irrationality, it’s adversarial and people often go their separate ways. So it’s so important to strive to keep conflicts at the lower levels and stay focused on the issues and on problem solving. - and not win/lose - I’m right/wrong Acts ch. 15 is another example of conflict in the Early Church. Paul & Barnabas are preparing to go on their next missionary journey. Barnabas wants to take John Mark with them. Paul does not want to take John Mark with them because Mark had deserted them on their first journey. Paul’s work of planting churches in hostile environments was very difficult and even dangerous, and he only wanted people with him that he could trust. But Barnabas believed in giving people a second chance, just as he had given Paul a second chance years before. Verse 39 - “The disagreement became so sharp that they parted company; Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed to Cyprus. Paul chose Silas and set out. The believers commended him to the grace of the Lord. He went through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches.”
1 = Problem to Solve (people stay focused on the issue)
2 = Disagreement (involves a commitment to a position, sides begin to be drawn, starts to become less objective, more personalized)
3 = Contest - Sides are clearly drawn, not objective at all, lots of personal attacks, focus is on the personalities & not on the issues, clear goal is to win, to beat the other side
4 and 5 Highest levels of Conflict -- Fight/Flight and Intractable - where the goal becomes not only to win but also to harm or get rid of the opponent.
1 - Conflict is part of life, even church life. Luke, the writer of Acts, tells us these things rather matter of factly. The Early church did not seem blown away by the conflict. Paul and Barnabas parted company. Barnabas and Mark set out to minister in this direction. Paul and Silas set out to minister in this direction. And God continued to use them all. And that’s the next point:II Timothy 4:11 - “Only Luke is with me. Get Mark and bring him with you, for he is useful in my ministry.” Mark the deserter was requested by Paul. Sometimes reconciliation is possible. And that is the ideal.
2 - The Gospel must go forth. Even after this conflict the Good News of God went forth. Paul set out and strengthened the churches. The Gospel - the Good News of Christ - must be preeminent. It must be the most important thing. The Gospel is bigger than our struggles, our opinions, our pet peeves and entrenched positions. It’s bigger than our conflicts. The Gospel is what unites us and what we must stay focused on.
3 - In the midst of conflict we must always hope and work for reconciliation, knowing it’s not always possible. Paul and Barnabas parted ways because Barnabas wanted to take Mark, and Paul did not want to take him.
Amen